Our San Diego Vacation

For longer than I can remember I have wanted to visit the great state of California. I have been in every western state other than California and just could never understand why I haven't gone other than the traffic and hearing the terrible stories about the freeways from my Dad. When Cyrena told us about the wedding they were going to I jumped at the chance. Not only to visit California but the most important, to spend time with her family. When Mike, Kassy, and Josh decided to come also, it really made for a great time. We knew a hotel wouldn't work out because we would want to be together. Mike found us a great condo on the beach in Mission Bay.

It is so close to Sea World, the zoo and other sites that we wanted to visit. We were very lucky to book it when we did because the owner sold the condo and signed the papers the next Monday after we left. I was shocked by the amount he received from the sell but it is on the beach. Mike, Kassy, and Josh flew while the rest of us drove it with of course Chris driving on the nasty freeways.

Our first night there we didn't do much. We arrived almost to late for site seeing. We did find our way into "old town" for dinner. We found an old Mexican restaurant. I can't say it was the best food in the world but we enjoyed the atmosphere.

The next morning we decided to go to the San Diego temple. I had hoped to allow the kids the chance of doing a session while Paul and I spoiled the boys but they decided to have us go with them to walk around the outside. Each of us loved this beautiful temple. I always pictured it to be bigger. The grounds were something to behold. The boys enjoyed running and chasing each other. It became difficult to catch them. It is always a marvel to me that no matter where you are, the minute you step on temple grounds you are removed from the world.







We next went to Coronado Beach. It was an awesome experience just getting there. You have to cross a huge expansion bridge. Cyrena and Chris love to eat Sushi now and so we found a place and they even got me to try it. It wasn't that bad but I can't say that I will try it again. Mike decided that he liked it. While the Grimms left us for a barbecue, they did go to California for a wedding, the rest of us played on the beach. It was so clean and I marveled being able to look on the horizon and see nothing but ocean. Josh was very brave going down to the water with Grandma. We hadn't quite arrived at the water when all the sudden I seen all these gulls coming in off the ocean. Then I heard a loud scream "MICHAEL", I turned to see Kassy running back towards Mike. She had had a piece of pizza in her hand for Josh to eat. Of course the birds thought she was feeding them. She threw the pizza and ran. It was like a scene from the movie "The Birds". Kassy hasn't seen this great classic but I will do everything in my power to make sure she does. I just wish we would have had a camera on her. She was greatly scared but it was a great experience for the rest of us.

Josh loved the ocean as much as I did. My only regret was not being dressed for it. My plans were to just roll up my pants a little bit but there is a pull towards the ocean and before we knew it our pants were wet. Josh loved to stand on the sand and then as the waves would come in he would scream out of delight. Mike would have to lift him up or the waves would have covered him. He didn't want to leave. None of us did. Why didn't some one tell me how cool it is to have the sand leave under your feet as the waves go back out. I could have spent hours at the beach. I thought the beach at the condo was cool but it was nothing compared to this.


Shamu was our next experience. We were able to sit in the splash zone and not even get wet which I'm not complaining about mind you. It was a great show. Josh loved it and clapped his hands. Of course his puppy couldn't miss out on the show. He also loved going through the Sesame Street play land and all the other fish we were able to see. At times watching Josh was the best site for me.


Our next day was full just at the San Diego Zoo. I thought the Hogel Zoo has big, I hadn't seen anything yet. Just when we thought we had seen everything we would find a different level. The boys loved running, playing, and chasing each other. It would have been better if Bauer would have had a leash on him. Josh really gave me a work out. Bauer kept people around us entertained by singing. Most of the time it was the alphabet song. These two little boys became the best of friends. Again they were my favorite animals in the zoo. To get out of the zoo we took the sky ride. It was something that I didn't think I could do but with the thoughts of walking two miles to get out of the zoo or taking the easy way out, I told myself if it got to bad I would just close my eyes. The ride over the zoo was great. I need to stop being so afraid.

We couldn't stay to long in the zoo. Chris and Cyrena had their wedding and the rest of us went back to the condo to pack and clean up. Because of my Dad who had become worse we decided to leave at 10:30 Saturday night. Mike, Kassy, and Josh were leaving a few hours after we did. They had a very early check in of their rental car and flight.

Chris was able to show us the house that he lived in as a senior in high school on our trip home. It is for sell in case his family wants to move back.It was a long hard drive but with each of us taking our turns at least some got some sleep. I was to worried about Dad. It was difficult leaving warm San Diego especially when we got closer to Cedar City and found snow on the ground. We had a great trip and I was able to do things I have wanted and also conquered over a few fears. Thank you Chris and Cyrena for allowing us to tag along. Thank you Mike and Kassy for coming with us. Thanks to Josh and Bauer for bringing such great joy to your grandparents. Paul and I have decided that we need to take more trips like these and try to get the rest of the family with us. This is a very beautiful world we live in and we need to enjoy more of it.

To the Best Father in the World

I thought about waiting to do this post until I was at home so I could add pictures of my father but I realized that I have sent all my pictures to Salt lake with my brother. I don't want to wait to have them returned so here goes.

As most of you know my father passed from this life and began his new life on October 16. He has been putting up a strong fight for the past six months but as the days and weeks went by, his heart became weaker. In September he told me that he felt like he was living on borrowed time, that he was ready to begin his new life. I told him that we would all miss him but we also understand the plan that has been given to us and would be looking forward to the day that we would be able to be with both he and Mom again. Over the past couple of years we have become closer. Being of service to someone else has a tendency of doing that. He told me so many stories of his childhood and I really need to sit down to a computer and began writing about them before I forget them. Thank goodness Amanda (Tami's daughter-in-law) did sit down with Dad and get a little bit of his history while he could still talk.

My Dad lived a full life with no regrets. I don't think there was anything that he didn't accomplish that he thought about doing. He always worried about spending to much time at work and not with the family. I reassured him several times that what he did was necessary for us to live and that when he did play with us, we had his full attention. When I think about all the places that he has been, 49 states excluding Hawaii because he couldn't drive there, the lower parts of Canada and even into Mexico. He put over three million miles into driving for the church alone. He hauled at least one item for most of the older temples in the United States, as he told me one day as we were preparing for our vacation in San Diego. He hauled the parts for the Baptism font in the San Diego temple to Los Angles. Upon arriving at the temple we were informed that the font was being replaced because of leaks. Such is the way of the world. Even with all the sites that he has seen, his favorite was right here in Emery county. I don't think there are to many around here that knows more about the desert than he did. With Mom on the back of their four-wheeler, they explored. He loved taking others with them explaining all the different things and making sure they appreciated the beautiful as much as he did. We will have the many wood items that he carved, his three trucks, replicas of the trucks he once drove, have become even more valuable. Each of his grandchildren have a cup that he turned on his lathe. The other night as I was in my living room I was reminded of his work as my eye was drawn to the Cedar Chest that he made for Cyrena one year for Christmas. These pieces of art are his legacy. But it doesn't end there. Each of us children received treasures from his hands for Christmas presents. As a child growing up he was taught the value of a piece of wood. He worked hard in the family sawmill located by Blue Lake as others know it, but to us it is Jewkes Lake. Gathering wood each fall to burn throughout the winter is a great family tradition that is going the way of the world. His love though was cutting down the biggest tree and seeing if he could get it rolled onto the truck he modified just for the purpose of hauling wood. He would have the tree milled into lumber that he would use in his projects. Buying lumber was just something he hated to do. None of us will be able to forget the great breakfasts that he would cook for us as we went camping and especially Christmas morning. As my sons served missions or couldn't make it home for Christmas morning, the thing they missed the most was being at Grandpa's and Grandma's for breakfast. We had it all. The past couple of years he had to stop because it became to difficult for him but oh how we all missed it, he being the most. It was a time to see all of his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. He loved his family and loved having them around him, running, playing, and laughing. A child is to have fun around him, not just sit and be quiet. He received this from his mother.

His life is a testimony to his beliefs. He was always giving service to others and never told anyone no. He never yelled at anyone, if asked for his opinion he would give it but always as counsel, never forcing anyone to believe the way he did even if he could see the errors of our ways. He made friends very quickly and these friends remained that way for the rest of his life as was evident from the viewings. He was an example to all those who know him and to those great grandchildren that are still learning, growing, and coming into this world as they will be able to reflect upon his great life as they read from his history. It is only through these histories that others in the future will know about us and the lives that we have led. I guess that is why I love blogging. At least we are doing a little bit especially for the children that we love to tell others about.

As I was preparing my tribute to him for his funeral I could remember so many stories and my sister and I could have talked hours about him. But since then I have remembered more stories that I wanted to share. An example why he hated chicken so bad, he ate a raw chicken one night while being impatient waiting for it to cook. He ate frog legs, just to see how they tasted, like chicken. He wrecked two family vehicles in a month plus blow the motor in the tractor. I don't know how he lived past those experiences alone. As Paul and I picked up something from Arby's last night I will never forget his favorite #2 with fries and a Coke. It was difficult getting the fries down. Before that it was McDonalds. He knew where every McDonalds was located in the western states while he was driving for the church.

He is a great father and I know that he is with Mom now. They have been apart for to many years. How I'm going to miss him but I know this is how it should be. It is a strange feeling being an orphan, but only on this side of the veil. I know they live and I will be able to be with them again one day. Oh, to see the great reunion that is going on. He felt so bad about not being able to be to his brother's funeral a couple of months ago, now he is with him again. Only in the temple do we get a small glimpse of what it must be like. He has left a great legacy and it is up to each of us to live up to his example. I love you Dad!

A weekend of great events

Derrek and Leslie Taesome

This past weekend Paul and I were privileged to go to Salt Lake, yes I said privileged because by going to Salt Lake we were able to spend time with five of our children and the most important is Josh, that we don't get a chance to see very much, especially Les. On Thursday night we met up with Brian's family for a dinner to celebrate the wedding of Derrek and Leslie. We met members of his family while enjoying good food. Saturday morning we met in the Salt Lake temple to witness the wedding and sealing of this beautiful couple. It is hard to imagine the kids all grown up and beginning families of their own. I know it has been a while since Cyrena has been able to see her cousins so I'm posting pictures of them for all the Oveson's that have missed this side of the Oveson clan. The wedding was beautiful as was the reception. Everything fit in with Leslie's personality.

Sorry we didn't get a picture of Kim and Jordan (her husband).

Ashley (22)

Courtney (19)

Carrie (16)

Christian (16)
On Saturday morning we all got together to help Mike, Kassy, and Josh move into their new home. At first it was doubtful that they would be able to move because their closing was pushed back. But even with the stress and confusion we began to move things into their new Riverton home by noon. Tara was the best with helping Josh pack up his toys and clothes into a box and then more importantly helping him to unpack and put away his things to make his room his. Josh has been a little bit traumatized by this whole experience. He loves having things organized and having to live for a week in a home that is partially boxed up has been hard on him. But he loves his new home and slept very well on Saturday night. They are officially in with all their things out of their old apartment. For pictures of their new home check out Kassy's blogspot. Also big news with Mike and Kassy, they found out on Thursday that their new baby is a boy. We are so excited. I guess Lexie will continue on being the only girl for a while. That is until Cyrena finds out. We are happy for them and as we all know boys are easier to raise than girls. Well for some of us, I'm sure Marty will disagree with this.

Paul and I do feel bad about not being able to help Nicholas and Danielle with their move to Wellington. We had plans of helping them on Saturday afternoon but because of a nail in my tire and having to fix it, caused us to get home to late. We are looking forward to seeing their new home tonight when we go over.

So for now the kids are settled and we are resting. I keep telling myself that I need to get busy on the house because I only have a couple more weeks until Chris, Cyrena and Bauer arrive for their visit. But then they are coming to see us, not the house. We are all getting very excited. So life is good, at least it is if we look for that. Oh, and Paul survived another talk yesterday in Sacrament meeting. He did a great job and the best is hopefully he will only have a few more months of speaking. See always look for the positive.

A day off

A have a day off from the schools and I use part of it to update my blog. Last night Cyrena called and we gave each other a bad time about not updating our blogs. But at least I have posted before she has. So now I'm up on her. I should be scrubbing down the bathroom and trying to get this house in better order before Cyrena's family comes for a visit in October but instead I'm sitting here at the computer and sometimes feel like I'm wasting time. I should also be in quilting on Leslie's (Brian and Pam's daughter) temple quilt. I need to have it off this week so I can have it finished before their wedding on the 19th. But then sometimes it feels like that is all I do is quilt. I do love it unless I'm pressured to get one finished, like I am now. Plus I need to get a baby quilt on for Sara. Yes, Sara it will be pink and black to match Charly's room. I have been stalking you on your blog. Sorry it will be a tricot blanket but the babies do love laying on them. Plus I think so do the Mom's.

Today is only the third day off I have had since school started. I'm not complaining though because it will only give me a bigger check to spend in San Diego. I know that I will be working again for the next two weeks. I have to schedule a day off just like a regular job. Sometimes I think it is a little funny. But one day I won't be doing this and I know that I will look back with very fond memories. Last Thursday I covered for Neal Peacock's drama classes. He had us play a game called "Make Me Laugh". The kids had to sit in a chair while the rest of the class, one on one would do something to make you laugh. It is to get the kids to keep a straight face in times of humor. It is so good to laugh. I had tears running down my cheeks for three class periods. How well I remember being on stage and having problems controlling those moments of laughter. It is days like this that I love being in the classroom.

Yesterday we had Danielle and the kids over for dinner. It has been awhile since she has been here and we loved every minute of it. The kids are growing, but it isn't like we haven't seen them for awhile. We took them to dinner last Thursday. But it has been over a week since they have been here. We also took them for a walk down to Grandma's to get a cookie and to show Danielle the new pigs that Marty bought Grandma. The kids love to play with them. As I was talking to Cyrena about the pigs I think she thought that they were real. Kyler has named the little baby pigs, Wilburn, Peter Pan, and Tinkerbell. I guess you can tell what his favorite movies are at the moment. I thought that you would enjoy a picture of them.

Both pictures of Ashton and Grandma's pigs

Time spent together

Over the past couple of summers, since we purchased our four-wheeler Paul and I have gone out on several rides. Enjoying the mountains or the desert and the beauty that God has created for us. This summer has been the exception. Not because the desire hasn't been there, it just seems like every weekend we schedule to go something comes up. We have good friends that we like to go with but sometimes our schedules don't match up. Yesterday Paul and I decided that no matter what we were going to go. We did have to go alone but that isn't so bad. We haven't had alone time very much this whole summer. So to end the summer we got out, enjoyed each other, the beauty, just relaxing, and forgetting about everything that needs to be done. Our ride took us up past Joe's Valley, Grassy, and Jewkes Lake. As we past this pond I couldn't help but remember all the camping trips I enjoyed as a little girl. Riding past where the old family cabins once stood. Dad loved telling us stories of when he was a little boy spending the summer in the mountains logging. At one time there was a saw dust pile so big that it was fun to jump into. All of that has decayed and gone the way of the world. The past is gone from this area. I don't even think we could find one tadpole or baby frog. Of course Paul and I didn't even try. We continued on to the skyline drive. There are a few remaining snow banks on top. Even though they are very small. We dropped down to Pete's Hole and again remember all the fishing trips and the many times that Paul and Lydell tried to be the first ones to break into Pete's Hole. In fact one time one of them broke an universal joint in their truck and we had to walk off the white dugway. This was also my Grandpa Bell's favorite place to fish. The lake is still full which is usual for this time of the year. Several people were out enjoying fishing with their families. We had a great day and Paul even got a very rare picture of the two of us enjoying our lunch on top of the world as Paul liked to say.
Also I would like to send out a huge congratulations to Michael. Yesterday was his big day. He took his three hour exam to receive his MRI Tech certificate. He has been worried about this all summer and Michael didn't need to worry. He passed this test and is officially finished with school. That is until he decides that he needs more stress in his life. We are so proud of him but then like I told him yesterday we are proud of him no matter what.

Toni you asked for it

I have been trying for the past couple of weeks to update this blog. First I thought that I would wait for Ashton's birthday so I could post pictures. Then I spent last week at the hospital with my father. We finally have him home and on the mend. Plus every chance I have had to just sit I have had a book in my face, even while tying a quilt. If you have not read the "Twilight" series I strongly recommend it. As for the title, Toni left me a comment about needing to know whose kids belonged to who. I need to apologize realizing that we haven't seen part of the family for years. So here goes.

Les is living in Ogden and loving it. He has bought him a home and is working at remodeling it and making it his own. He has completed a bedroom and the front yard. His front yard now requires very little water and has native Utah plants. His neighbors didn't like it when he let his front lawn die but they appreciate the beauty that Les has brought in their neighborhood. He is now working on a bedroom in the basement. He is working at Weber State as a Maintenance Electrician. He lives a couple blocks away which has really helped out with his fuel cost. He loves his job. We don't get a chance to see him very often because he is busy but we do take the chance whenever we head north and he meets us in Layton, my new favorite place to shop. He has a new friend, Waldo, an orange kitten that keeps him company.

Nicholas is still working at Wal-mart and has applied to get back into the management program. He figures that this will be best with his children growing up. He is the father of Kyler, Lexie, and Ashton. Kyler is now four and is so excited to begin pre-school. I don't think it is going to be that much different than the day care he has attended at the school where Danielle is teaching sixth grade. Kyler is a big help to us, helping Grandpa every chance he gets, especially outside digging. Lexie is two and is all girl. She is Grandma's pretty princess and will remain that way until other girls come into the family, which I hope will be this next year. She loves to shop, carry a purse with a cell phone in it, and shoes. She loves having her hair pretty and wearing dresses. Ashton is now a year old. He is a big boy and is trying so hard to walk. He would love to keep up with the other two. He can crawl fast though. He is such a joy to us as all of our grandchildren are.



Ashton and Grandpa at his party





Michael, Kassy and Josh live in Bountiful at least for now. They are looking for a new home closer to where Michael is now working. The new IMC hospital in Murray where he is an MRI tech. He loves his new job. Kassy is almost four months pregnant and we will soon be finding out what they are having. For now the baby is called Molly, pending to change. We are so excited about the new baby. Josh is a typical three year old pushing all his mom's buttons. He loves to run and play and be outside. He loves to watch his Dad fly airplanes and everything he has becomes an airplane. He is like a little monkey though. He can wrap his little arms and legs around you so tight that you really have to pry him off which I don't do very often.

Mark and Tara are living in Bountiful also, a few miles away from Mike and Kassy. Mark is working for a landscaping company spraying trees and grass. His job is year round and during the winter months they put up Christmas lights for those rich enough to afford this service and then take them back down. Tara is working at the dentist office and loves her job of looking into people's mouths. She keeps a close eye on the kids mouths in the family. They have been able to do a little bit of traveling this summer and have loved it.

Cyrena, Chris and Bauer live in Rockford, Illinois, which I don't like very much. I guess at least it has given us the opportunity to travel which we wouldn't have done other wise. They have their own carpet cleaning business and are doing very well with it. We are looking forward to a visit from them in October as well as spending time with them in San Diego. Cyrena is also expecting in April, two months away from Kassy. She has really messed up our travel plans. We normally see them in June, on Bauer's birthday. We haven't quite figured out our plans for next spring. Bauer is a normal two year old training his mom for future children. But he is a great little boy and we really miss him. Grandpa and Bauer especially became close a couple of months ago and it was hard telling him good-bye.

As for Paul and I we are just trying to keep up with it all. Years ago I lived in this fairy tale land where I imagined that my life would slow down as the kids all left. That Paul and I would finally have time to do what we wanted, when we wanted. Again that was a fairy tale. My mom warned me that as we get older life gets faster and now I believe her. We have looked forward to going camping and especially going on four-wheeler ride. We have only been able to go camping once and that was to girl's camp and a ride once. Thank goodness for girl's camp because I have to go with my calling and Paul is also there to be such a big help. We both love girl's camp and I don't know what we are going to do if I'm ever released from young women's. I guess Paul will continue to go without me. We are hoping to go on a ride in a couple of weeks, before we have to park the bike for the winter. School has officially started as of today and I have already received days to sub. So I guess that summer is over for me. But I like it this way. I enjoy being around the kids and sometimes I do learn new things. Plus it will help to have to extra money with all the trips that we will be making next year. Some day I'm going to retire from the schools but as one young women told me, it will be when I die. I guess we will see.

Sorry this has been so long but as the title says, "Toni, you asked for it"!

I have returned

I'm going to be brave with this post. Since Cyrena set me up on my first post I have told myself that I would have to wait for a time to call her and receive help on the next. But as I said, I'm going to get brave. I guess if you are reading this then you will know that I succeeded by myself.

Since arriving home from Illinois life has been crazy. But then everyone knows that is just life. We all run around without our heads wondering where each day has gone and why we can't seem to accomplish anything. The days go by even quicker and we wonder why time can't slow down. I guess we just need to enjoy each second as they come and remember them.

The end of June and the first of July we were able to celebrate Josh's and Kyler's birthdays. Josh turned three and is a bundle of energy. I know that is why he doesn't put on much weight, he is always on the go. He loves to play and anyone around him plays with him because he takes your hand and guides you to what he wants. He loves Curious George so his birthday cake has George in an airplane, his second love. Michael has several planes that he loves to fly and has passed this passion on to Josh. One of his gifts was a scooter that Mark and Tara gave him. They always give the best gifts. Hence the picture.















You can see Kassy in the background. I know that she has posted this in her blog but we are excited about the new baby, "Molly" that will enter into our lives the end of February. This is just the nickname that they have given the baby that is until they find out what the baby is.

Kyler turned four on the third of July. He celebrated his party at Danielle's family cabin in Indian Canyon. This is one of his favorite places to be. Kyler loves several things. He loves to play, his favorite toy is horses. He has several and his Great Grandpa Bradfield built him a barn to hold all his horses. Except I don't think he realized just how many Kyler owns. Kyler also loves to watch movies and TV. His favorite show on TV is Diego. So I made him a Diego cake. In the picture he is with his cousin Rose on his mother's side. Also I have added a picture of Lexie and Ashton.















Lexie is Grandma's girl. With her being the only Granddaughter I get to spoil her a little bit different than the boys. She loves princesses and of course that is what I call her. Grandma's pretty princess. She is 2 1/2 now.

Ashton will be celebrating his first birthday in a couple more weeks. He is trying very hard to walk on his own. He wants to keep up with his brother and sister. He is a big boy and holds his own with them. He is such a joy in our lives.




A couple of weeks ago I had the priviledge of going to girl's camp. It is a different experience being with the Stake but I still had so much fun. In fact I have never laughed so hard or cried so much. As a stake presidency we were the ones causing most of the pranks and staying up the latest. I didn't stay up the last night because we couldn't keep a fire going but we still have a lot of fun. It was a great week and the best of all was that Paul was able to be there also. He has been going to girl's camp since 2000 and all those that have been there over the years have grown accustomed to him being there. He said that he would keep going as long as I go. Who knows how much longer that will be.

I can't leave this post without a picture of Bauer. We have really missed him. Cyrena keeps us informed about how he is doing. I guess when he sees an airplane he thinks that we are coming again. How I wish we could every month. Other times we have spent with him he has been afraid of us, but this time he loved being with us especially his papa. Hopefully we will be seeing them again in October when they come here. That is if the airlines keep their prices under control.















Hopefully I will be able to continue to update my post. As I read others I love keeping in contact with them and their families. As I said in my first post have patience with me.